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 Body of Lies (2008)
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how can i get him to 'feel romance' toward me?
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So I am a guy, 16, and there is another guy I like, 16.
He’s my best friend, and he is 100% out of the closet, and he knows about my drunken behaviors/almost-hookups in the past, while I am publicly straight (I’m bi so it’s not a total lie
)
Anyway, a few weeks ago we were laying together on the couch when he went to the bathroom and then to my room, claiming he wanted to lay somewhere with blankets, and i was like sure, so I got in there and then he starts kissing me! I was really surprised and I had never thought of him that way before, and so I wasn’t really into it, and I stopped him and I was like "I’m not up for this but I’ll let you do it to get it out of your system" and he just continued to kiss me and I was a mildly active participant, haha.
A week passed by and I was REALLLLLYYY starting to enjoy the idea, and we went to the movies with a friend and the whooole time we held hands it was really sweet, but he was also kind of being bitchy, but still touching my hand and stuff, and I knew he was unsure.
So I texted him like "you really don’t want this to happen, do you?" and he was like "yeah i do! i just don’t feel romance toward you, so it won’t work", and then we had a week of school and I saw him there, and then winter vacation I didn’t see him at all for 2 weeks (we had plans but i fell really ill near the end of winter vacation).
school started again and that weekend we got together to work on a project, but he is a slob and so i didn’t trust him to do the project (i had already finished everything but the poster which i helped him do), and he made some comment like "blah blah blah i have to shave down there again" and i was like "whaaat really you do? sickoo!" (even though I have for years so.. hah) and he was like "whaaat it’s so normal!" and i went "i don’t believe you that’s so weird" so he went "you think? go ahead feel it, i don’t get awkward i don’t care" and so i did and i was like "oh hah that’s funny it feels like a shaved head.. uhh scalp. hahah" and then i was like brushing the bristlyness and then i was like "so if you don’t get awkward.. is THIS awkward?" and i reached further and grabbed a hold. (raging ***** btw) and i was like "looool somebody’s enjoying this!" and he was like "that’d happen if ANYBODY touched it" and i was like "whatevvv, hah" and let go/removed my hand haha
he’s brought it up later as a joke because i have a really low body temperature like "your icy hands on my dick!"
during the last week, we were driving home and i (as a joke) groped his butt and my other friend’s butt (cause i was stuck in the middle seat and i hate it hah), and he was just like "careful
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then last weekend, we were hanging out and i hugged both my other best friend and him goodbye, and as we’re hugging (not in the sight of our other best friend), he grabs my *** with one hand, pulls me super close and grinds our crotches together
we hang out ALLLL the time too, and if we are in a large group on someone’s bed he’ll do things like sit against my feet to keep them warm (it’s not uncomfortable for me/him/anyone hah it just sounds weird), or if as a group we all go for a walk he’s the first to make everyone link arms (and he links mine) and holds my hand to keep it warm (because as usual, i am an iceberg)
i have no idea what to make of all this and i am so into him and i know it’s just high school and we probably won’t go to the same university but why won’t he be with me, even if it might only be for a year or it doesn’t work out?
in short: we’ve made out, i’ve felt him (hard) and he didn’t complain, he always acts like (and is) my best friend, but he doesn’t ‘feel romance’ toward me
just what should i doooooo
is it my fault? is it him?
ps anyone who read all this… thanks! i just needed to get it off my chest because my best friends that i can tell anything to are 1) him , and 2) would unintentionally become estranged
Interesting situation.
Maybe hes not sure how interested you really are, and hes playing it safe?
Maybe arrange something for valentines, a date or something? It might be the safest time to test the ‘romance’
Kittens | Feb 06, 2010
Okay, I had the urge to read everything.
I think…he’s maybe…just trying to experience hiself. By the sounds of it, it looks like he is according to your description.
He sounds open to everyone, personally thats what I think. He doesn’t sound like the type of guy who likes serious relationships. He’s being friendly and open. I think you guys should just stay as best friends, I’m sorry, its the only way to not end up heartbroken.
Try not to spend to much time with him, try finding someone else who likes to be in serious relationships. I’m sorry.
But thats just the way he is by the sounds of it.
++ I <3 You ++ | Feb 06, 2010
wow capital letters and some punctuation and i might actually read that
if he doesn’t you can not make him.
sounds more like he enjoys teasing you for fun
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froggy_logic | Feb 06, 2010
when he comes round talk to him about who he fancies and say do you fancy me then think of something that gets you hard and make sure he can see you hard-on then just look at his dick if he says what are you looking at say your dick coz i wont you then lean in to kiss him gran his hand and place it on your dick (down your pants) if you get to the point were you 2 are realy horny go donw and suck him off but do all thi romantically dont put pressure him HOPE I HELPED??
Mike | Feb 06, 2010
If it’s really a matter of "feeling romance" you could try some romantic poetry (Shakespeare’s Sonnets, Pablo Neruda) and some chocolate. Feed him, guys love food. Compliment him. GIve him a present.
I’m not sure he knows what he’s talking about when he says that. He may just be insecure about himself or maybe overly secure.
Hildo | Feb 06, 2010
i read all of that lol.
well, he’s obviously into you physically, but idk if he wants a commitment. he could be one of those guys that are just really flirty and friendly but never feel the need to settle down. tell him what you’re feeling and see what he responds with. it’s better to know and get hurt than to never know and always wonder..
if he’s really your best friend, he’ll understand your feelings and talk with you about them in a gentle way. good luck, hun<3
I Am The Walrus | Feb 06, 2010
awww lucky i wish i had a best friend like that lol. i also got icy hands XP
hamburger! | Feb 07, 2010