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Home Alone (1990)
IMDB rating: 6.60
Plot: Kevin McAllister, 8 years old is accidentally left behind while his family rushes to the Airport to go to France for their Christmas vacation. Kevin learns that he made his family is gone. He spends his first day having fun in his house. Kevin learns that Mav and Harry (The Wet Bandits), two crooks are trying to rob his house. Kevin fends for himself and protects his house from the thieves, by setting traps everywhere. Meanwhile, Kevin’s mother discovers that they left Kevin in Chicago and tries to go back to Chicago while the other members of the family stay in Fance.
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Directors: Columbus Chris
Actors: Culkin Macaulay,Pesci Joe,Stern Daniel,Heard John,Blossom Roberts,Ratray Devin,Bamman Gerry,Hankin Larry,Maronna Michael C.,Comedy,Crime,Family,
i need some serious help please…?
I’ve been crying a lot lately. It’s mostly been because all of a sudden, I’m at home alone with nothing to do but study, and most of my friends are having to go our with their families or whatever so we can’t hang out much. My boyfriend doesn’t call me at all nowadays, but maintains that it is because he can’t. And void of even him, with not much to do, nowhere to go, things are taking their toll on me. I’m starting to feel lonely really often. I suppose most of it has to do with not being in touch with my boyfriend. I don’t think he’d lie to me about why he’s not calling/answering my calls, but nevertheless, it does seem unlikely that he was so sick for a whole week that he couldn’t (usually gets ok in like, 3 days) or that his mom was getting so pissed about him being on the phone that he’s not allowed to answer even one call a week. If he doesn’t want to spend some time with me, why bother having the relationship at all? I’ve known him for really long though – and it’s hard to imagine him lying about important stuff like this… So what is it, he’s just taking it real easy..?
The other things bothering me are the fact that I haven’t been out much, and that most of my friends’ parents have taken them out to a relative’s – so I’m not really in touch with anyone. And no one calls. This makes me feel sad, lonely and forgotten.
I cried over this for around two hours last night, which is an unnaturally long time for me. I just feel like I’m losing myself, and losing control of my life. I used to be this tough girl who could handle quite a bit, and now, here I am, completely the opposite – a sensitive silly girl who doesn’t know how to keep her love life and the rest of it balanced.
Can anyone please help me understand what’s happening to me..? And how I can reverse this?
I don’t think seeing a doctor’s possible. See, where I live, people don’t think I should be getting involved with a guy in the first place, so I can’t really get professional help here. Even if I could, I’d have to do it through my parents, who also would not approve of this way of life.
I honestly don’t think he’s lying to me. It’s jus not like him to do that.
If he wanted to end, he would just say so.
His folks are visiting, so like he says, maybe he can’t talk on the phone because they don’t like it?
I don’t know what’s happening, but I really do trust this guy. He’s not the sort who’d cheat on me/lie to me. He’s just not.
Hmmmm… I don’t really think I complain much. We usually just talk about what’s happening in our lives and what we can do next weekend, stuff like that. I’m kind of quiet though, I’m not the sort who can go chitter-chatter all the time, and I know a lot of people who find that attractive.
kgmort k, that is not at all weird..! I always take walks around my block when I’m upset 
Sounds like you are depressed. As they say.. takes one to know one!! I have suffered from depression off and on for years now. You need to find someone to talk to. Go for a walk around the block. It might sound silly, but it will help. If you take a walk everyday or twice a day, you might see some people.. who will remember you from a previous walk and say hello!! That is a start.
The next thing you need to do is ring someone and tell them how you feel. If you dont feel comfortable ringing a friend, your Dr.. or how about a relative? Just telling someone how you feel really helps alot. I would certainly see a Dr to get your hormones checked. Its easy to check and sometimes something so little can make you feel so sad. I found out that my thyroid wasnt working to full capacity and it was affecting my hormones.. which led to depression. Definately see a Dr !!!
I hope you feel better soon. Take care xx
kgmort k | Jan 15, 2010
Trust me hun you aint got the worst here.
I do understand your pain.
Truly I do. You may not think I do but Ive had a hella lot in my life
Death of Bro , psycho out to kill me , constant stress. ya know that sh*t. :/
Just txt your bf and talk to him about it
Sounds a little fishy to me.
I dont think hes gonna just suddenly "take it easy"
Go over to his house one day unexpectedly if you can. Or if you see him at the mall or something go up and say hi
If hes happy to see you, everythings ok with you two.
If not.. Honey he may be cheating. NOT NECCESSARILY !! Dont take that to heart !
but its a thought. It could be a number of things also.
Talk to your parents about how you feel about being home alone so often and they might try to help.
Focus on trying to get back the tough girl that used to be.
As for the crying..
It is a healthy way to let out ones emotions.
Try to ring a close family member one day for just a chat.
Go out to the mall one day and have some you time.
And you cant reverse it, but councelling might just help if worse comes to worst.
Theres always gonna be someone to talk to, even if its not who you expected.
Tiff Tiff | Jan 15, 2010
Sure, you can reverse this. Sometimes we let ourselves get in to the habit of allowing others dictate our life. Your friends are busy, your boyfriend is not attentive, you are bored…What happens in your life is up to you. You say you ‘used’ to be this "tough girl", that girl is still in you. Get up. Get ready, and get to gettin. You do not need the attention of others for happiness. You have to be a friend to have friends, be the joy-filled person they want to be with. Be kind and thoughtful, but start with yourself first. Maybe you whine to your bf and your friends. Complaining, or negative talk wears thin on even the best of friends. Start a positive inner talk with yourself first. Use only positive words. I can, I will, Find something you really like to do and do it – even if you have to do it alone. Smart people are never bored. Do not depend on anyone else for your own happiness. For your whole life the only one who will always be with you, is you (and God if you believe). You may have a touch of ‘poor me’. That is fot fun for you or your bf or friends or family. Put a bright smile on your face and get back to taking care of yourself, instead of depending on others. Nothing wrong with being a (silly?) sensitive, tough girl who can take care of herself.
Peabee | Jan 15, 2010
How long has this been going on for? If the emotional stuff has only been over the last week or so it could just be PMS, which could explain the uncharacteristic crying and the whole situation with your friends and your boyfriend may be making the PMS worse. It’s also possible you might be depressed, so you should talk to someone about it, probably a parent or another adult you’re close to.
As for the boyfriend, speak to him. I hate to say it but it sounds awfully like he’s just making up lame excuses not to speak to you.
False Alaska | Jan 15, 2010
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